2013년 12월 31일 화요일

Turkey with THE LATE GEORGE APLEY


Turkey with THE LATE GEORGE APLEY


"Because we do not face virginity in the drawing room after a Thanksgiving dinner." ~Ronald Colman in The Late George Apley.

He's not dead but he's not exactly the life of the party either. The Late George Apley is a 1947 satire, set in 1912 upper class Boston, that begins on Thanksgiving Day. There's a stuffed turkey about to be eaten by some stuffed shirts, as rich folks used to be called. Assorted relatives gather. George is excited because he spotted a yellow-bellied sapsucker outdoors that late in November. Prim, proper and rather sturdy-looking Aunt Amelia enters with the holiday greeting, "How are your teeth, Margaret?" Aunt Amelia has a face that would've worked quite effectively on a "Do Not Enter" sign.

She seems obsessed with dental care, exposed bosoms and cuckoo clocks. Another Apley relative remarks, "We've sat in these same seats for 18 Thanksgivings." That's the way George Apley feels it should be. Always the same. Dear Mrs. Apley wonders if things really must always be like that -- always the same.

Young Eleanor has other ideas. Fresh ideas. Lively ideas. Eleanor's also a major babe with a modern brain. She's like a touch of spring in the winter. She's in love with a working class guy who could not afford to attend Harvard like her father did. She'd like to break out of the Apley Boston groove on snobby Beacon Street. George, her father, says "Boston's not just a city, it's a state of mind." Ellie longs for a new state.

On Thanksgiving, when supportive Ellie asks sweet and plain Agnes about her "coming out" into society party plans, she learns that Agnes is afraid. Ellie tells Agnes not to be afraid because that high society ritual is an archaic, dull custom. Ellie declares to Agnes, "We suffer from ancestor worship. Thanksgiving is a typical tribal feast. And 'coming out' is nothing but an old idea of introducing the virgin to the rest of the tribe."

Ellie likes to face things that exist. She reads Freud. Her mother, Mrs. Apley, gets curious about Freud. Father tells vivacious Ellie to pipe down with the virgin talk on Thanksgiving. And he tells her why.

Ronald Colmanhits all the right notes in this breezy satire about "environment, points of views, one's approach to life." George means well, he's a loving father and a good husband. He's charming. He just needs to loosen up, to embrace change so he doesn't break hearts the way his was once broken. He disrupts Ellie's romantic relationship in a way that could turn her into another Aunt Amelia. Joseph L. Mankiewicz directed this 20th Century Fox production. Colman's other release that year was George Cukor's excellent theatrical suspense drama, A Double Life. With a screenplay co-written by Ruth Gordon (Rosemary's Baby, Harold and Maude), Colman played an aging actor whose mental breakdown as he plays Othello leads him to accidentally commit a murder. The script gives us a clever thriller with a look at what could happen when the actor becomes the character and gives the performance of his life. Colman deservedly won the Best Actor Oscar for A Double Life. Theshy and dowdy Agnes is played by Vanessa Brown, the actress who played Mariah the maid William Wyler's The Heiress. On Broadway, Brown originated the role of The Girl played famously by Marilyn Monroe on 20th Century Fox's film version of The Seven Year Itch. VanessaBrown is quite good as Agnes, the virgin wallflower who eventually learns to fight for her right to bloom.

The Late George Apley is not a top shelf Joseph L. Mankiewicz classic like his A Letter To Three Wives and All About Evebut it's a very enjoyable movie to see on Thanksgiving. It's 90 minutes of warmth and amusement, well-played at a smooth pace. I think I'll be adding it to my two Thanksgiving must-see movies -- Woody Allen's Hannah and Her Sisters and Wes Anderson's Fantastic Mr. Fox.

I absolutely, totally loved Mildred Natwick as conservative Cousin Amelia in The Late George Apley. You thoroughly understand why her husband needs a good stiff drink every once in a while. Natwick is a hoot in that role and steals every scene she's in, whether she has dialogue or not. Just look at her facial reaction to "We've sat in these same seats for 18 Thanksgivings." Also, Peggy Cumminsis yummy and radiant as Eleanor, the outspoken yet loving daughter. Cummins is quite popular with classic film fans today as the lovely and lethal blonde in the 1950film noirindie classic, Gun Crazy.




The Late George Apley shows off her sophisticated comedy talents.

At the heart of this light comedy is the message for George Apley to get to know his children, to help them be happy and to let them lead their own lives. That's a pretty nice message for today's parents too. Happy Thanksgiving.



Stanchart Marathon 2013 - Exciting to Uncertainty


Stanchart Marathon 2013 - Exciting to Uncertainty


Stanchart Marathon 2013 - Many local top will be running in this race

Picture 1 - Athletes Derek Li (left) is running in this year's Stanchart Marathon while Lim Thow Wee (right) 2hr 53min 01sec will not be running.

Although I am running in Stanchart Marathon 2013, I don't think that I will be able to do the personal best that I did in Singapore International Marathon 1995 which was 2hr 34min 02sec. A calf strain affected me or else I would have done a much faster time for this race.With 3 years of absence of not running from 2009 to 2012, in any marathon, finally I ran and completed the Gold Coast Marathon 2013 in 3hr 55min. I am hoping to get better over time. One reliable source, a gentleman, who is also a runner, told me that he met Mok Ying Ren and asked whether the latter is running in the Stanchart Marathon 2013 race. According to him he told that Mok affirmed that he is running in the Stanchart Marathon race 2013. Whether Mok is running or not, it is still uncertain for us until he really runs in the Stanchart Marathon 2013 race. That means that many are running in the Stanchart Marathon except for Ashley Liew, who was the 2012 champion, and Lim Thow Wee etc.Well, Derek Li, top contender for the championship, this year, has done a 2hr 47min in Gold Coast Marathon 2013 and might do a better timing if things go well in this race. We wish him all the best!As for Ang Chee Yong, he may go for it as he has been coming in second local in the 2012 and also the 2013 Stanchart Marathon. The championship has eluded him for a number of time and that means that anything can happen this year. It is who dares wins. Hoong Wei Wong, Sundown Ultramarathon 2013 champion may spring a surprise by coming in top 10 or even top 6 in the upcoming Stanchart Marathon race. As for the Flexifitness athletes, we have myself (1hr 30min in Spinx Half-Marathon 2013), Jensen Toh (4hr 59min in Cebu 70.3km) and Moses Ng (1hr 26min 27sec in 2013 Army Half - Marathon and 3hr 17min in Kuala Lumpur Marathon 2013) running. We should be able to get at least a minimum 3hr 20min if things do not work well.If things goesvery well, one or two of us may do a sub-3hrs in this coming Stanchart Marathon. Right now, Jensen Toh looks like a contender for top 6 position in the uncoming race as he has done a 30min 33sec personal best last week in the Flexifitness 8km Time Trial while I did 31min 34sec.There are some runners who are capable of doing a 3hr 10min to 3hr 20min or faster that I know who are also running in the Stanchart Marathon 2013 race, but they told me not to reveal their names as they do not want to promise anything and they are in a conditional phase for a foreign race.www.runningcoachsg.com





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Made for You ... By Us. Part 2


Made for You ... By Us. Part 2


Another installment of our "Made for You.... By Us" series! Some of our handmade items that are perfect gifts for anyone on your list.

Today, our popular Booth 58 chalkboards... Mr. 58's signature pieces...

A variety of shapes, sizes, and colors


silver plate serving dishes




small chalkboards with rustic wire hangers


Don't forget to pick up a bag of our Booth 58 chalk too when you are in. No fun with out the chalk!

Hotbed, Deathbed, or Seedbed


Hotbed, Deathbed, or Seedbed


It's been a very busy fall in ministry with work in the local church and the larger Church. Recently I spent time in Moscow, Russia as part of a North Georgia Annual Conference UMC delegation establishing a 10 year partnership with the Eurasiaarea of the UMCwith focus on the Moscow seminary and the area UMC congregations. What a challenge to think of Methodist Christian principles that will work in that context! I followed the UMC Council of Bishops during their week long meeting at Lake Junaluska. What a challenge as they lead a global church even while struggling hot topics found insome national/regional issues!

All of this ispercolating in my mind today in a curious way as I'm in a reflective mood working on Thanksgiving. #COB2013 reinforced for me thatthe UMC family has incredibly different agendas in various regions, different expectations, values and ways of interpreting/communicating Scripture faith,andseem to be defining "vital church" in all sorts of ways. We seem to be in quite a mess that's been well blogged,opined, and reported upon. Are we a divided house, a dysfunctional family, orjust a big family reunion that's very diverse with a lot of history?!

This ruminating has me wondering whereUnited Methodism is currently doing well, where we are in ICU or dying, and where new life is springing forth.

My sense is that most of us don't self evaluate and communicate the truth on these matters too well. We don't do well with thatregarding ourselves, anyone, or any group we love. Who wants to admit they are dying?! Is the script we operate on rooted in reality? Even in our interactions with one another we'll typically think/know we are right, think we know what's right to say and do, and are the exemplars of Methodist Christian faith. It seems to me there should be someone, some agency, that would clearly and definitively say one conference or region is dying, one is thriving, and another is a seedbed that is birthing a new church or experiencing a resurrection of an old church.

In personal interactions the dialogue and communication is different with someone early in life, someone growing rapidly, and someone who is dying. Shouldn't communication among various churches in these different states/regions also be appropriately nuance? Wouldn't we of necessity have different agendas, different concerns, and perhaps markedly different ideas on what the priorities are? Or maybe this is the way we think about one another when we aretweeting oron our soap box as we assume our superiority of knowledge and that if the other will just listen and do as I say we'll make progress.

In my mind I confess I tendto think the UMC is vibrant in some places in the southeastern US, declining in the US northeast and west, and being birthedand in the early years in a number of international settings. But I wonder if that's dated information andmerely my bias! What if the picture is really that the UMC is declining in the US, vibrant in some of the existing forms inAfrica, South Americaand Asia, and being born in some of the countries or regions of those vibrant conferences?! Perhaps youhave the same trouble.

Today I find I'meven morecurious about the state of Methodism, and in particular United Methodism, across the globe. By that, I'm wondering where we are being birthed, where we are thriving, and where we are dying. Now, I'm looking for more thananecdote or rhetoric, but reasonable facts, figures, in addition to the narrative of a UMC conference and churches that represent the Wesleyan doctrine and practice. Wouldn't this be a compelling and a clear view of quantityand quality that could assistus in knowing how we are doing? It mightalso help us to knowin our communication with one another in a different region or in a global setting how wemight better understand each other.

Related to this,I'm also curious what sorts of folk we need elected as delegates to GC2016. More than ever I think I'll be looking forpeople who have a global view, solid Wesleyan perspective, able to communicate well with a global church (meaning they listen more than they talk), and are morefuture driven in their thinking and decision making. So, if you want my vote know that I'll want to see that you help us build a church for the next 40 years-in North GA, the US, and the world-that you can communicate well with people whether you are sharing the story in Augusta, Georgia, USAor in Moscow, Russia.

If you are comfortable in a seedbed we're thinking in similar ways.


Does Your Library Need a Stitch Collection


Does Your Library Need a Stitch Collection




Here's a simple and very helpful list to consult if you've ever wondered if you need a stitch collection like 50 Fabulous Knit Bobbles, Popcorns and Puffs:
If you forget how to work stitches and find yourself Googling techniques over and over at inopportune times.
If you've ever used a vintage pattern containing instructions for a stitch that basically say "Oh, you know, just add some bobble columns however you like" and you need a little more information than that.
If you've ever wanted to add embellishments to a plain bit of knitting and needed help figuring out the multiples of stitches need to work the embellishments in your pattern.
If you design your own patterns of any size or skill level and know you don't have to do all that stitch count math/magic all by yourself.
If you like books with "Fabulous" in the title because that's how you roll.
If you enjoy bobbles, popcorns, and/or puffs.
If you like learning new things because knowledge is always cool--fabulous even.


Who wouldn't want to know how to make these fabulous stitches?!
If any of those statements apply to you, then you probably need a stitch collection. And if knitting--or this particular type of embellishment--isn't your thing, there's always plenty of other fabulous options for your library. I'm just here to help.



Before you push too hard, check whether you are at the right door


Before you push too hard, check whether you are at the right door



In a difficult passage in my life, I was hell-bent on pursuing a certain project that I calculated would pay my bills and give me some room for creative expression. But every time I tried to push forward, I found myself blocked. Something inside me resisted my ambitions, and the world seemed to rebuff me at every turning. Despondent, I sat down and tried to make sense of my situation. Suddenly, I had a clear vision of myself from a witness perspective. I saw myself beating on a heavy wooden door, studded with metal, banging my fists until my knuckles were raw and bloody. I saw myself pausing to take a few rasping breaths, seemingly exhausted, before pounding again on the door that would not open. Okay, that's how it is. Like many night dreams, my spontaneous vision was holding up a magic mirror to my actions and attitudes. Was that all? I felt a prickling sensation at the back of my neck. I found myself drawn from my observer position into the scene, which was more alive to me now than the family room where I was sitting. My second self was still beating his fists uselessly on the unyielding door. But the prickling sensation was guiding me to turn around and look at something invisible to him. I turned to my right, and saw an elegant, mysterious figure beckoning me with a crooked finger. There was a Trickster quality about him. He was standing in a beautiful archway. Behind him a winding path led up a slope among flowering trees into a landscape of beauty and abundance. I felt that everything I was seeking in life was through that arch. The Gatekeeper waited for me to grasp what he was showing me. My vision and understanding were still far from complete. If all this bright promise was waiting for me, through an open door, what was I doing beating myself bloody at the door that would not yield?

I turned to study again the situation of the Robert who was beating on the door. I discovered two things. While with one hand the Gatekeeper was beckoning me through the open gate of possibility, with his other hand he was holding that heavy, metal-studded door shut. The real shocker was that I could now see what was behind the door I had been desperate to open. The space behind it looked like a jail cell. I had been exhausting myself in an effort to put myself in a place of confinement. This powerful vision led me to make some radical life choices. I abandoned the project on which I had been working for months. Little by little, I found myself on the path between the flowering trees, in a world of ever-burgeoning creative possibility. The vision helped me to gain clarity on some rules for conscious living that work for me:


1. When one door closes, or won't open, look for the door that opens onto better things.

2. Before you push too hard, check whether you are at the right door.

3. Recognize that there is a Gatekeeper in life who opens and closes doors, and be ready to honor him (or her) and pay the price of entry, which may simply be a clear eye and an open heart.

Oh, there is one more.

4. As long as you stand in your own way, you will find the world stands in your way.




I confess that #4 is borrowed from Ralph Waldo Emerson, my favorite homespun American philosopher. The original version is: "As long as a man stands in his own way, everything seems to be in his way."



Photos (c) Robert Moss. Doors at the Albright Knox Museum in
Buffalo, NY,Père Lachaise Cemetery, Paris,at the Basilica of St.
Peter and St. Paul,Vyšehrad, Prague, and at the exit from the harem at
the Topkapi Palace, Istanbul.